Tamannaah Bhatia highlights importance of mutual respect in relationships
Leading actress Tamannaah Bhatia, in a recent interview with renowned podcaster Raj Shamani, discussed some important relationship red flags individuals should be aware of. When asked about controlling behaviors, she emphasized how trying excessively to change a partner can undermine trust and respect.
Bhatia said people should avoid attempting to transform their companion into their “perfect version” according to their desires. This type of behavior amounts to a form of control over the other person. Instead of respecting an individual's uniqueness, it denies them autonomy. Exerting this dominance over decisions and actions is a major warning sign that needs attention, according to the actress.
Relationship expert Sonal Khangarot agrees controlling tendencies often stem from deep-rooted psychological issues or unmet personal needs. These could originate from childhood experiences or past trauma carried into adulthood. Individuals may feel an anxious need to dominate their partner due to insecurity, fear of abandonment, or unrealistic expectations of what an ideal relationship looks like.
Some signs of covert control include repeatedly crossing boundaries, manipulating emotions through criticism or gaslighting, isolating the partner from outside support systems, and pressuring change via emotional blackmail. All undermine the autonomy and self-worth of the other person over time if left unaddressed.
Thankfully, seeking counseling can help surface and deal with underlying causes safely. Practicing self-reflection, nurturing independence, and rebuilding a support network are important steps when encountering controlling behaviors. With awareness and healthy boundaries, individuals can recognize such toxicity and prioritize their well-being and freedom in a relationship based on mutual care, trust and respect.
